Relationships

Attachment Style

How you handle closeness, distance and needing someone.

⏱ Time: ~2–3 min 📋 Items: 16 questions 🔬 Based on: Experiences in Close Relationships (ECR-R) 🔒 Privacy: 100% In-Browser
16 questions
How this is scored

16 items across security, anxiety, avoidance, and communication. Attachment results should be framed as relationship patterns, not fixed identity labels.

Academic References & Background

  • Brennan, K. A., Clark, C. L., & Shaver, P. R. (1998). Self-report measurement of adult attachment: An integrative overview. Attachment Theory and Close Relationships (pp. 46-76). Guilford Press.
  • Fraley, R. C., Waller, N. G., & Brennan, K. A. (2000). An item response theory analysis of self-report measures of adult attachment. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 78(2), 350-365.

1I feel comfortable depending on someone trustworthy.

2I can let someone close without losing my sense of self.

3I believe relationships can handle honest conversations.

4When trust is present, closeness feels safe to me.

5I want quick reassurance when someone important feels distant.

6I worry about being too much for people I care about.

7A slow reply can make me question where I stand.

8I look for signs that someone may be pulling away.

9I pull away when a relationship becomes emotionally intense.

10I prefer solving emotional problems alone.

11I feel uncomfortable when someone depends on me too much.

12I need a lot of space before I can talk about feelings.

13I can ask for closeness without feeling embarrassed.

14I tell people clearly when I need support.

15I can name a relationship concern without blaming.

16I listen when someone explains how my behavior affected them.

Before you start

The 4 possible results

Every answer nudges you toward one of these. Here is what each one means.

Mostly secure

You can get close without losing yourself, and distance does not read as danger. Conflict is uncomfortable for you but not threatening.

Anxious-leaning

Closeness matters enormously to you, and ambiguity is the hard part: a slow reply gets filled in with meaning that was never there. Your strength is that you notice relational shifts before anyone else does.

Avoidant-leaning

You handle things alone, and emotional intensity from others reads as pressure rather than connection. Your strength is genuine self-sufficiency and steadiness in a crisis.

Mixed / fearful-leaning

You scored high on both wanting closeness and needing distance, which is why relationships can feel like accelerating and braking at once. This pattern usually comes from learning that closeness was both the reward and the risk.

About this assessment

Frequently Asked Questions

What does the Attachment Style measure?

How you handle closeness, distance and needing someone. 16 items across security, anxiety, avoidance, and communication. Attachment results should be framed as relationship patterns, not fixed identity labels.

How is this test scored and how long does it take?

This test contains 16 questions and takes about 3 minutes to complete. All scoring runs instantly in your browser with zero sign-up.

Are my responses and results kept private?

Yes, 100% private. All calculations happen entirely inside your web browser. Your answers never leave your device and are never stored on any server.

Is this a clinical or medical diagnosis?

No. MindType tests are created for self-reflection, personal insight, and education. They do not constitute clinical, psychiatric, or psychological diagnosis.

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